Recently I received a request from a fan asking: How can I make others like me? When I saw this question, I could actually feel his helplessness. It might be that he was rejected by the person he liked again, so That's why he would ask such a question, and today I will share this question with you.
In my opinion, if you want to be liked and recognized by others. First of all, you need to do 3 things:
Make others feel good about themselves
We usually find it easy in front of others Make yourself feel good and make others feel bad. If, in turn, we make others feel good about themselves, others will like you.
Among them:
Raised eyebrows, profile, and smile are the three basic messages that represent friendliness. Grasp the other party’s language information, mental state, and emotional state, and respond with corresponding words. .
Don’t repeat what the other person said word for word, because parroting others’ words will make you appear condescending.
Don’t be embarrassed to ask others to help you
Benjamin Franklin discovered that if you ask a colleague to do you a favor, your colleague will feel better about you than if you didn’t ask him to help you. .
The Benjamin Franklin effect seems to go against our intuition. When a person helps others, he will feel good about himself and he will like you. However, be careful and do not abuse it, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
Appropriate self-disclosure
Show the truest you. The relationship between people depends on Depending on the degree of exposure to each other, being able to reveal your heart, expose yourself appropriately, and show your true side is often easier to win the trust of the other party.
In most cases, people always like to interact with people who are frank and real. If the other person confesses his shortcomings and shortcomings, we will think that he is very frank, which has shortened the psychological distance between each other, and the psychological relationship will be better. Feeling more grounded and showing the truest version of you will not lower your image in the minds of others.
So if you want others to like you, start doing these 3 things now. I believe you will see a change in the near future. Come on.
