Many boys are relatively introverted. They are nervous to even speak in front of the girl they like and dare not take the initiative to pursue her. In fact, many girls do not like introverted boys, but it is not because they don't like them because they can't speak, but because they dare not take the initiative to make girls dislike them. So how do introverted boys win the favor of girls?
1. Introverted boys should focus more on enriching their spiritual world
In fact, most inner people will have their own spiritual world, so what you need to do is to perfect this spiritual world. Remember to be detailed and clear, not vague. For example, if you like photography, then go and study photography. Techniques and methods, if you like calligraphy, then specialize in how to write more beautiful calligraphy, etc. This will make you more confident when talking about areas you are familiar with
2. Show your interests, hobbies, and inner The spiritual world
Now that you have enriched your spiritual world, you should show it through the display. The display method can be Moments, Weibo, QQ News, Douyin, Kuaishou, etc. . These are your "other faces". Since the inner person cannot speak, then show your own spiritual world sideways to let others understand you better.
3. Prepare a few stories
During the chat, occasionally talk about topics to guide you to become familiar with them. field, and then tell it to others by telling stories. When chatting with others, we can't speak ourselves, but we can lead the topic to ourselves through guidance, and then use the stories you prepared to tell your own spiritual world.
Because you are prepared and can tell your story well and confidently, and you will be relatively more confident in your familiar field, and this confidence will be infectious to the listeners. You tell stories, so that others can feel that although you are introverted, you have your own spiritual world, and in this way, you become attractive to yourself.
Therefore, introverted boys don’t need to worry about not being able to express themselves. Instead, they should be more clear and detailed about their inner world, and then find ways to show your value so that girls can get to know you well. As long as you are good enough, girls will naturally fall in love with you.
