Sometimes we will meet a girl who is very smart and cute, but she treats you as a buddy. This situation makes people feel confused and don't know what to do. Today I will share my experience, hoping to help everyone.
1. Don’t give up
If you really like this girl, don’t give up easily. Although she regards you as a buddy now, no one can predict what will happen in the future. So, keep in touch with her, chat with her more and get to know each other better.
2. Change yourself
If you feel that there is no progress between you and this girl, then consider changing yourself. For example, learn more new knowledge and improve your cultivation and quality. This will make you more attractive and easier for girls to notice.
3. Don’t force the other person
If you keep forcing the other person to accept your feelings, it will only make her more disgusted. Therefore, you should pay attention to the methods and methods when expressing your feelings. You can express your feelings through small gestures, such as sending a gift or writing a letter.
4. Find common ground
If there is nothing in common between you and this girl, then you must work hard to find it. You can increase mutual communication through some activities or hobbies. Only by finding common ground can we get closer to each other.
5. Accept the reality
Finally, if you really try many methods, but the other person still treats you as a buddy, then you must accept the reality. Don't force yourself to get the other person's affection, and don't give up your life because of this matter. I believe there will be better opportunities waiting for you in the future.
When we meet a girl we like but is treated as a buddy by her, we should keep working hard, change ourselves, find common ground, and not force the other person. Most importantly, accept reality and believe that better opportunities await us in the future.
