Emotional value is very commonly used in our life and work, but we don’t know that this is emotional value, so today I will introduce to you what emotional value is, and by the way, let’s talk about the role of emotional value. Take a look.
1. What is emotional value?
Emotional value means that one person can influence the emotions of others. Ability is not a tangible thing, it is a feeling and feeling that can be conveyed.
It specifically includes care, encouragement, support, understanding, trust, consideration, attention, worship, etc.
When a person can bring comfort, pleasure and stable emotions to others, this person’s emotional value is very high; when a person always makes other people feel awkward, angry and embarrassed, this person has a high emotional value. Human emotional value is very low.
2. The role of emotional value
People are animals dominated by emotions. No matter they are excellent or ordinary, they will need comfort, sharing, and companionship. Everyone needs emotional value.
If you know how to provide emotional value, you will know how to make people around you more willing to be with you, because you can make them experience relaxation, comfort, joy, and positive emotions and feelings. .
This is what we call “people with high emotional intelligence are always popular.” So, how do we become people with high emotional value?
3. How to become a person with high emotional value in love?
The level of emotional value depends on two aspects. On the one hand, it is the feelings one conveys to the people around him; On the one hand, it is how you present yourself to others. In love, you can do this:
1. Express your care and concern
Give more hugs, physical Touch can soothe your loved one's emotions and convey to them that you are ready to listen. If the other person is not ready to talk yet, you need to give them enough space to calm down and recover.
2. Express affirmation and encouragement
Encourage the other person more when they try to change things. For example, if he makes a new dish, you can actively taste it and give praise and areas that can be improved. Real feedback is also important.
As the other party continues to gain emotional value, they will be more active in doing it next time. This is a virtuous cycle, which is also conducive to maintaining the freshness of love.
3. Express support and trust
Everyone will face problems that need to be faced by themselves. You may not be able to help at this time, but you can express your support and trust. Trust gives him or her the courage to choose and execute, and lets the other person feel that he or she is not fighting alone.
4. Express understanding and tolerance
Understanding is a very important ability, not only in love, but also in friendship and family relationships. Achieve understanding, tolerance, and empathy, and companionship will naturally lead to long-lasting love.
If you encounter any problems, you are welcome to chat with me.
