In fact, as long as a boy doesn't speak outright, behaves like a scumbag, and has low emotional intelligence, it's quite easy to pursue a girl normally. The main reason is that many men have never had the experience of falling in love. They don’t know how to get along with girls, what little thoughts girls have, and don’t know how to get closer to girls. Therefore, they often take detours when chasing girls, which makes the relationship difficult. It was so hard that in the end I couldn’t hold on anymore.
According to the normal steps of pursuing a girl, the emotional path of falling in love is: showing value → establishing comfort → emotional upgrade.
Show value
Many men know few girls and cannot date girlfriends. This is not due to their own existence. The big problem is that they don’t know how to show their own value. For example, a boy who is good at singing never shows off his singing skills in front of girls, and a boy who is good at dancing never shows off his dancing skills in front of girls. This means that it will not show its own value.
The more common strengths that attract girls are very simple skills: playing basketball, singing, dancing, playing guitar... Simply improve your appearance and figure, work harder and improve your work. Skill.
Comfort establishment
If a boy successfully attracts a girl, they will have a good impression of each other and can Communicate on appropriate topics. Next is the process of establishing comfort. This period is a critical period for chatting with girls. For opposite sexes who have a good impression of each other, it is very easy to start some resonant chats. Opening up and communicating honestly is the key to establishing comfort. The best way to feel.
At the right time, share your secrets. Through the exchange of these private topics, your emotional communication will become deeper and your understanding will become more familiar.
Emotional upgrade
When chatting with a girl becomes more and more familiar, many boys think that they When you are about to succeed, it is often the final stage of success in love, but it is also the key point of failure. Because some boys are too involved in chatting and make girls become good buddies. These boys just don't know how to escalate their emotions.
There are many methods and techniques for emotional upgrading, such as physical contact, holding a girl’s hand, putting a hand on a girl’s shoulder, and holding a girl’s waist. They are all common love routines, but the timing of doing these actions is also important. It must be chosen at an ambiguous and intimate moment to play the role of emotional escalation.
