Recently, we have discovered a problem. Many brothers don’t know whether they should pursue girls. Even if they are together, they don’t know whether they should get married. There is only one problem in their hearts, and that is the fear that both parties are not suitable. Being hurt and afraid of wasting time. Many people ask me how to judge whether two people are suitable for each other. Are you and her really suitable? Today, we will give you three basis for judgment.
How to judge whether two people are suitable for each other
The first basis is to look at work attitude and life attitude< /h3>
What is the work attitude and life attitude of two people like now? There is a high probability that it will not change after they get together, or even get worse. Don’t think that the other person will change. This is common to both men and women, at most There will be changes during the initial period of contact, but the essence of a person will not change. Once you relax, you will return to your original shape. We were playful and unmotivated before we got together, and there won't be much change after we get together.
It is still recommended that you choose a girl whose living and working conditions are similar to your own. Otherwise, if the gap between the two is too large, one person is motivated and the other is unmotivated, and there will still be problems in the subsequent relationship.
The second basis is to look at family conditions
Of course, it is not that you find a rich woman, but that the girl’s family environment cannot be too different from yours. For two people with similar family backgrounds, the gap between their growing up environments will not be too big, and they will get along and adapt quickly. However, if the gap in family conditions is too large, not only will their growing environments be very different, but they will also have many differences in values. Ambiguity can lead to quarrels and affect relationships.
Therefore, what the older generation said about being well-matched actually makes sense to a certain extent. It never hurts to listen to other people’s opinions and suggestions and pay more attention.
The third basis is to look at the circle of girls
As the saying goes, those who are close to red are red and those who are close to ink are black. , people who can hang out in a circle basically have similar views, so if you want to know what a girl is like and whether she is suitable for you, in fact, you can judge it just by looking at the personalities of the friends in her circle. That's about it. If people in a girl's circle go to bars every day and stay in a boy's circle, then there is a high probability that girls are also such people. On the contrary, if the friends around them are positive and full of positive energy, then there is a high probability that this girl will be the same. , is a nice person.
In fact, judging whether two people are suitable for each other is to look at the above three aspects. If you observe more carefully when you are in contact with girls, you can actually tell whether they are suitable for each other.
