Many boys can’t find girlfriends because they think they are not good enough. Some honest men even give up and stop pursuing girls! As a man, you should understand the truth - men are attracted to women, and it is never necessary to flirt with girls. Be pretentious, be yourself, be a better version of yourself, be able to be calm and relaxed when getting along with girls, talk and laugh happily, then flirting with girls is a very simple thing, you only need 3 tricks to chase girls, let’s learn these simple and easy skills together!
The first tip: Desire for nothing
Many people pursue girls in order to pursue a certain result, thereby ignoring the process. performance. The peerless martial arts in martial arts novels are all "haste makes waste", and the same is true for chasing girls. Blindly pursuing desires and pursuing a certain result will only make girls gradually see the motives behind your actions. How can you possibly chase girls? ?
Therefore, the simplest technique to flirt with a girl is to have nothing to desire, not to chase her, but to approach her directly with a favorable attitude, let her get to know you, understand you, and feel comfortable with you. You are very pleasant to get along with, care about her, protect her, and play a role when she needs help. Chasing girls will naturally happen naturally.
Second move: Taste it briefly
Many people can't control the rhythm of chasing girls, or rush to attack Move forward, or stay still. Chasing girls has to be done in a shallow way, just like flying a kite. Pulling and flying is the best rhythm. Chasing girls is like fishing. Only by fishing one fish can you capture the heart of a girl.
If you keep pursuing, girls will only keep going away. Only a brief taste and a hazy feeling of inseparability can arouse her curiosity. This is actually the core essence of "Schrödinger's method of picking up girls" and "the unpredictable method of picking up girls". Let girls first have it and then "lose it", then they will understand you. of preciousness.
The third trick: creating illusions
Illusion is the first of all
pleasures.——Oscar Wilde. Think carefully about when you had a crush on a girl for the first time, were you indulging in fantasy? When you longed for wealth, were you fantasizing about how you would spend your money when you became rich?
All kinds of things Evidence shows that fantasy is the behavior that most stimulates people's happiness. When chasing girls, it is very easy for them to experience happiness by creating fantasies. This is why girls love to hear love words, compliments, and vows of eternal love. The ambiguity that people often use when flirting with girls is actually used to create fantasy, because ambiguity can trigger people's imagination!