There are big differences in the thinking of men and women. Many boys use straight male thinking to chase girls, so they often spend a long time without a high success rate. So how to chase girls with a high success rate? Let’s share some The correct way to chase girls is given to everyone.
1. Understand the other person’s needs
Chasing girls is related to buying things It's the same thing, whatever the customer wants, we don't have the right to judge whether it's right or wrong, just give them what they need.
Take birthday gifts as an example. Just follow one principle: don’t give expensive ones, only give the right ones.
If she lacks nothing, give her something she has never seen before, such as a small handicraft made by yourself, and she will be very happy.
If she likes jewelry, but you think those things are too flashy, and you have to study it for several days and make a chocolate cake that she is not unfamiliar with, she may not remember it deeply.
This is not a question of whether the thing is good or not, nor is it a question of whether your intentions are enough, but a mismatch between supply and demand.
Just like a girl likes a gentle and polite boy, if you have a quick temper, she may not be interested.
If she likes hip-hop cool boys, then she may not be attracted to you if you are gentle and polite.
But you can show her what she needs more often.
For example, you can be irritable to others, but considerate and gentle to her; you can be polite, but willing to try cool outfits for her.
This is called contrasting cuteness, and it will actually gain extra points in the minds of girls.
2. Don’t make things difficult for yourself
Just pursue girls to the best of your ability, don’t do it just to show how hard you work. Even challenge yourself to do things you can’t do.
A good relationship should make both parties feel happy, rather than embarrass themselves and depress the other party.
Learn to test whether a girl also has feelings for you through explicit and implicit expressions. If she likes you back, your chances of success are high. If she's not interested in you, don't bother pursuing her. In the end, you'll still be angry. Why bother?
< h2>3. Get vaccinated in advanceBefore starting a relationship, you must vaccinate yourself. Is the other person really as good as you think, and is it worth your risk? Can you bear the risk of being rejected? If you think about it clearly and think, even if you are rejected, I will be happy, at least I tried hard, no There will be regrets.
Nothing is perfectIt's perfect, not to mention that feelings can't be forced. So if you really make a decision, you must think of a way to deal with it.
If a girl just doesn’t like you, it’s actually a good thing for you to know earlier and get rid of it earlier.
