It is necessary to give a gift to a girl on a special holiday, and to be courteous, but there are many things to pay attention to when giving a gift to a girl. It is not just about giving whatever comes to mind. For example, many boys will give shoes to girls as gifts. In fact, this is very inappropriate. As for the specific reasons, read on.
Girls are very emotional and prone to overthinking. Giving a girl shoes can easily remind her of "wanting her to leave". Some girls are more superstitious. Shoes have the same pronunciation as "evil", so they avoid giving shoes. There may be some girls who don’t care about these things, but just in case, it’s better to give a gift to a girl that she likes.
If you give a girl a pair of shoes on some festivals, and she happens to be the above-mentioned type of girl, you can imagine how terrible the outcome will be.
If you have already bought shoes, you must explain clearly when giving them, for example: "The meaning of this pair of shoes I am giving you now is to welcome you into my life." , I don’t mean to send you away.”
Next, the editor will share with you two taboos on giving gifts when chasing girls.
1. Don’t give too personal items
When you give a girl a gift for the first time, you The relationship is not that close yet. If you send underwear, underwear, breast enhancement products, baby warmers, stockings... these are too private items, which may give the other person the impression that you have crossed the line. It can easily arouse the other person's resentment, which is not conducive to the long-term development in the future. .
2. Don’t pass the gift off as a good one
I saw it online before There have been boys who went shopping for gifts for their girlfriends on Xianyu in order to save money. Because they didn’t know much about the twists and turns of buying cosmetics on Xianyu, and the boys themselves didn’t know much about cosmetics, what they ended up getting was fake. The boy gave it to his girlfriend without emotion, but her girlfriend naturally recognized it as a fake at a glance. After questioning, I found out that it was Xianyu who bought it, and then the two began a long journey to defend their rights. Fortunately, the girlfriend didn't mean to blame the boy, and the loss was eventually recovered. But not everyone is so lucky to meet such a reasonable girl.
In fact, there are many gifts that can be given. In addition to some that can be purchased, you can also spend more time giving them to girls. Give you a DIY personalized gift. For example, give her a homemade love cake from you on her birthday, give her a personalized photo album carefully prepared by you on Valentine's Day, give her a song to express your love to her on their anniversary...such a unique and thoughtful gift, Only then will girls be moved.
