Dating is a way to find love, but sometimes we may meet the wrong person. When we find that the other person does not meet our expectations and requirements during the blind date, how to get out gracefully becomes a problem.
1. Be honest and frank
During the blind date, if you find that the other party does not meet your requirements, the best way is to express it honestly. You can express your thoughts and feelings tactfully, for example: "It's nice to meet you, but I feel that we may not have many common topics and interests." This can not only maintain respect for the other party, but also make each other feel comfortable. Understand the reality of the situation.
2. Chat easily
If you feel that speaking your mind directly will make the atmosphere awkward Or feel uncomfortable, then you can choose to change the topic through relaxed chat. You can talk about topics that have nothing to do with love, such as travel, movies, music, etc. This can make the other person feel that you have less in common, thereby reducing the possibility of further interactions.
3. Arrange things in advance
Before the blind date, you can arrange some things in advance, such as asking friends to go out to parties, participate in other activities, etc. When you feel that this blind date is not going well, you can use the excuse that you have other arrangements and need to leave early. This will not only avoid embarrassing situations, but also let the other person understand that you don't have much interest.
4. Seek help from friends
If you really can’t find a suitable reason to get out, you can seek help from friends. You can discuss with your friends in advance to call or send you text messages during the blind date, and then you can leave with the excuse that you have something urgent to deal with. In this way, you can not only maintain your own image, but also end the blind date smoothly.
5. Thank the other person
No matter the outcome of the blind date, remember to thank the other person for taking the time to meet with you. Even if you don't want to continue the relationship, show respect and gratitude for the other person. You can say: "Thank you very much for taking the time to meet with me, but I feel that we may not have much in common." This will not only maintain mutual respect, but also let the other party understand your thinking.
Dating is a way to find love, but it is not possible to find the right partner every time. When we find that the other person does not meet our expectations and requirements during the blind date, being honest, chatting easily, arranging things in advance, asking friends for help, and thanking the other person are all ways to get out gracefully. No matter what, being respectful and sincere is the most important thing.
