When a boy likes a girl, he will find ways to understand the girl, and then pursue her in a targeted manner based on the girl's personality. This way the success rate will be higher. So if you like an insecure girl, what are the personality characteristics of insecure girls? How to woo an insecure girl?
1. Characteristics of girls who lack a sense of security
1. Inner negativity. A girl who is insecure in her heart may hear ten thousand words of compliments about her beauty, cuteness, and good character, but she won't listen to them. But if someone says something bad about her, she will feel sad and entangled for a long time, and she will feel very sad. Because she will automatically block some good comments and care about some negative comments, you must not use a negative attitude to hurt her when getting along with a girl who is insecure.
2. It is not easy to trust people. A girl who is insecure cannot trust anyone, especially feelings. She is extremely insecure. Once someone treats her well, she will repeatedly hurt others to determine whether the other person really loves her. In fact, she herself knew that this was wrong. Her inner uneasiness and extreme lack of security also made her very tired of living.
2. How to chase girls who are insecure
1. Be patient. When chasing a girl who is insecure, you must be patient, use your attentiveness to influence her little by little, and then get into her heart. Girls who are insecure in their hearts have difficulty opening their hearts completely and are suspicious and uncertain about everything. , not to mention that she may have experienced so many pains, so you must do something different from what she has done to people who are good to her before. You must let her learn to take care of herself and truly care about her, which is reflected in In every detail, patience and perseverance are the most important.
2. Approach quietly and care silently. This is not to say that you should chase her like a dog, but for girls who are insecure, it takes a lot of courage and a lot of hope to accept someone. So you need to spend more time in silence and deep love. Gentle and delicate love will make her feel warmth and hope. But don’t forget that you can take the initiative when the time is right.
3. Accompany her to grow up together. Girls who are insecure must have suffered a lot of unintentional or intentional harm, and they need a lot of unconditional love as the best foundation to heal themselves. The only person who can heal her and open her heart is herself. However, on this journey, you can grow with her and bring her warmth and strength.
4. Give her a sufficient sense of security. Since a girl lacks a sense of security, you have to give her a sense of security. If you think you can't do it or you will feel bored in the future, don't pursue it. If you chase a girl like this too hard, she will run away even further, so why not just stay by her side and care about her?He silently lets her get used to you, accept you, and makes her feel at ease with you.
