If you want to find a girlfriend and be single, social interaction is one of the necessary conditions. However, many boys are too introverted and shy to socialize, so they have few friends of the opposite sex around them. Naturally, it is difficult to find a girlfriend, and over time, they will not dare to You are looking for a girlfriend, what should you do in this situation?
1. You can be introverted, but you must know how to show yourself The charm
Everyone has their own unique charm, the important thing is how to show it
The aroma of wine is not afraid of the alley, but in this era, information is so developed, people Their patience is getting worse and worse. No one is willing to spend time and energy to understand a person thoroughly.
At this time, if you have any advantages or talents, you must learn to show them. You can show off your hobbies, your life, and your taste in the circle of friends. These are all necessary Show it yourself.
2. Introverted boys can find girls with common hobbies and interests
For example, you both prefer reading , raising pets, drinking coffee, watching movies, listening to concerts, etc.
When you are dating, you can also try to choose quiet and stylish places, such as parks, riversides, coffee houses, ancient towns with few tourists, etc.
At the same time, introverts should try to change their inner social anxiety and not reject extroverted characteristics.
You can try to get in touch with girls who are a little outgoing but not seeking excitement, so that you can gradually become more outgoing. Otherwise, if both of you are introverted, you will look very boring and depressed.
Two introverts sit in a cafe and look at each other quietly. It is very artistic and beautiful.
But communication and exchange are also beautiful things. Why should we give up beauty and choose to escape?
3. Learn and find other ways of communication
Introverted men may not be good at expressing their hearts and love directly. But you can communicate and express in another way.
For example, send WeChat, text messages, send gifts, etc.
Don’t arbitrarily think that girls will not like this method. Relatively speaking, most girls, whether introverted or extroverted, can accept these methods.
Don’t think No one in this world likes anything you don’t like. On the contrary, you don’t like bars, but many people still go there. If you experience it once in a while, it will be a different kind of happiness.
No matter you Whether you are an extroverted boy or an introverted boy, you cannot deny your own charm. You must tell yourself that you are attractive, otherwise you will live a miserable life.It's very painful
In today's society, more than one-third of people are introverts, but despite this, they can still have many girlfriends in their lives and are still loved by many outstanding girls.
It is a terrible thing to give yourself an unattractive self-setting and set it for a lifetime
And self-setting is not permanent, as long as you start from now on Self-affirmation, self-appreciation, and re-understanding of yourself.
Change your past negative ideas, maintain a good attitude, and learn positive psychological cues. I believe you will eventually be able to find a girlfriend and get out of the single ranks.
