Pursuing girls is a matter of skill and patience, and chatting is one of the most important aspects. So, how should you chat with a girl when you are pursuing her? Here are some suggestions for you.
1. Start with simple topics
When you first start chatting with a girl, you might as well start with some Start with simple topics, such as asking her how her day was, what kind of music she likes to listen to, etc. This will allow both parties to gradually become familiar with each other and avoid embarrassing situations.
2. Pay more attention to the girl’s interests and hobbies
If you have learned about some of the girl’s interests and hobbies, you can talk more about these topics during chat. For example, if she likes traveling, you can ask her where she has been and whether she has any favorite attractions, etc. This will not only increase the topic of chatting, but also make the girl feel that you are paying attention to her.
3. Don’t always talk to yourself
When chatting, don’t always talk to yourself, but give girls enough opportunities to express their thoughts and opinions. Of course, if the girl is shy or not very expressive, you can also guide her to express her opinions appropriately.
4. Pay attention to tone and expression
When chatting, tone and expression are also very important. If you always have a straight face and a stiff tone, a girl may think you are cold or uninterested. Therefore, you must pay attention to your tone and expression when chatting, so that girls can feel your enthusiasm and sincerity.
5. Don’t pursue perfection too much
Finally, I would like to remind everyone not to pursue perfection too much. When chatting, it is inevitable that you will make some mistakes or say the wrong things, but this does not mean that you have failed. On the contrary, if you can face your mistakes calmly and try to correct them, then the girl may appreciate your sincerity and courage more.
When pursuing a girl, instead of thinking about how to "capture" her, it is better to pay more attention to her inner world and listen to her story attentively. Only in this way can real trust and affection be established.
