Many of them are of marriageable age and are coerced by their families into hastily getting married. Even in some areas, blind dates do not consider the emotional foundation of both parties at all, and place too much emphasis on hard foundations such as material conditions. The right conditions may not necessarily be the right person! This also leads to emotional estrangement easily. So how to break the emotional gap?
1. Harmonious atmosphere
Although it is normal for couples to argue and argue, it does not mean that those who have a cold war and argue every day are in a good relationship. Really harmonious partners will learn to tolerate each other because they consider each other's feelings, and will never make unreasonable troubles!
If in a relationship, you must compromise and tolerate in order to gain a moment of "peace", Such feelings are not harmonious.
The alliance between partners is for 1+1>2, to make those who are happier, not to embarrass each other. If being with the other person makes you feel stressed, it's not a good relationship.
Faced with inappropriate and unharmonious emotional relationships, you must learn to let go. Not only will it be difficult for oneself, but it will also be difficult for others.
2. Long-term running-in
Falling in love is easy, but marriage is not. Facing the test of survival pressure and the fading enthusiasm of men and women are all tests of the running-in of a relationship.
If a trivial matter can crush your feelings, how can you have the confidence to meet the challenges of life?
Marriage, having children, retirement, and health, none of these are easy for a couple!
If you cannot withstand the test of a long-term relationship, let go of such a relationship as soon as possible most. To avoid the embarrassing situation of "everyone flies when a disaster strikes". When it hurts, you must learn to stop losses in time.
3. Sincere communication
Sincerity is powerful and can infect others. In love science, there is a term called consistency test, which refers to the method used by women to test whether men mean what they say. It can be seen that being consistent with your partner is very important.
When encountering emotional problems, never run away from them, let alone just tolerate them. Your tolerance may cause the other party to become more arrogant and domineering. You must communicate with the other party sincerely and truly, without any subjective emotions.
Both parties must calm down and talk frankly and impartially, and share each other’s true thoughts.
If the other person is unwilling to reveal his true feelings to you, you must pay attention! Either the other person is completely disappointed in you, or the other person has an ulterior motive in his heart.
In short, if you encounter this situation, you mustYou must learn to stop losses in time and don't dwell on them fearlessly.
