In the process of chasing girls, introverted boys will suffer a lot, because chasing girls involves social issues, and introverted boys are generally not good at socializing, so many introverts will find it difficult to get out of singles. But there are still many introverted boys in this society who have found girlfriends. How do they do it?
1. Attract her with aloofness
Introverted boys are not useless when chasing girls, because boys’ introversion can actually evolve into aloofness. Girls like aloof boys very much and have a desire to conquer them. So introversion can actually be an advantage when chasing girls. On the contrary, those boys who are outgoing and talkative end up getting along with girls and becoming very good friends because they are too familiar with each other. But it doesn’t mean that girls will like you if you are introverted. First of all, you must have excellent qualities and you must understand girls’ needs. What type of girl is she? Then you bring out the qualities that she likes. Then she will be attracted to you and even take the initiative to flirt with you.
2. Increase familiarity with each other
In fact, it’s not that introverted boys can’t speak, but they can’t talk to others. People who are familiar with her are embarrassed to speak. And introverted boys will definitely become less introverted if they get to know girls better! Therefore, when introverted boys chase girls, they must first increase their familiarity with each other. If they don’t know how to chat, they should date more girls and get along more with them. The more dates they go out, the more they will get to know each other. Of course, the frequency of dates should not be too frequent, just on Saturdays or Sundays. Make an appointment when everyone is free, or when there are some interesting movies. But if a girl doesn't want to go out with you, there may be something wrong with her once or twice. If you can't go out with her three times, then I advise you to give up. After all, there are so many girls in this society, and there will always be someone who is willing to get to know you slowly.
3. Take action
In fact, introverted boys are just not good at words, not action problems. . Even if you don't say true love, it will come out in your eyes. This sentence is not just rhetoric. If you are sure you like someone, you must seize the opportunity and take action. Therefore, if an introverted boy pursues a girl, he can first ask for her contact information and become friends first. This has already taken the most critical first step. Then don’t be nervous when chatting, don’t be dull in your communication, and don’t bore people by sending messages all the time. Show your charm and shine in the communication. Ultimately speaking, chasing a girl is not about how much you have to pay for her. If you don't like her, you don't like her. Your efforts will only move you.
Summary: In fact, how introverted boys pursue girls can be summed up in two points: learn to express themselves and let others understand themselves; own excellence. Because I'm chasing a girlThe main thing in the process of getting married is attraction. In the process of chasing her, you let her know that you are a safe and reliable person, and there is something for her to appreciate.
