Problem description:
This year, my family introduced me to a blind date who lives in the same place as me and is the same age as me. When we met for the first time, both parties were very reserved and the impression was not very good. Later, we made two more appointments. When we were able to make an appointment, we talked more than before. But every time, I take the initiative to chat with her. Girls on blind dates will not take the initiative to chat with me. Sometimes I take the initiative and send her messages instead. She is sometimes very slow to reply to messages, and she doesn’t seem to be very involved in the topic. Hmm. Is there still a chance in this situation? What does it mean to date a girl?
Emotional reply:
Girls on a blind date do not take the initiative to chat. This can be divided into many situations, and each situation has a different development model. Let’s talk about the situations below:
Category 1 situation:A girl on blind dates has less love experience and less experience. She still doesn’t understand how couples communicate. If a boy takes the initiative to talk to a girl on WeChat on his mobile phone, and the girl responds quickly, you take the initiative to find a topic. If a girl wants to chat with you, it proves that there is still something to play. Later, you can gradually get in touch, go out for an outing together, or have a meal. If a girl wants to play with you, it proves that the relationship can still develop.
The second situation:The girl’s own temperament determines the introversion. There is a kind of girl. People who are not familiar with me say she is a queen and a good friend. She is said to be a neurotic girl. This kind of girl will not be too proactive with people she has just met. If a boy falls in love with a girl, he can try to chase her. I think it is better for boys to be more proactive and funny. What’s lovely is that if a boy takes the initiative to chat with a girl on WeChat on his mobile phone, chats three or five times, and the girl doesn’t reply to WeChat, it means that the girl doesn’t fall in love with the boy, and the boy is out of business.
The third situation: When a girl sometimes says something to him, it may be because she has many boyfriends in contact and is in the selection state. If they keep getting lower and lower, or even stop replying to your WeChat messages on your mobile phone, it proves that there is no chance.
Scenario 4: If a girl adds you on WeChat and doesn’t take the initiative to talk, it proves that you are just a spare tire. She only adds you on WeChat to pay debts to your parents, relatives and friends. In this case, there is no need for boys to pay any more.
As for the blind date girl who is slow to reply to messages, it may be that she is busy. Although she is slow to reply, she still replies to you. If he doesn't reply to you, it may be a sign of failure. Of course, it could also be that she is trying to hang you out, which can be judged by the enthusiasm of her reply.
Blind date is indeed a good way to get out of singles. The introducer is quite reliable and knows everything about you. Therefore, if you encounter problems during a blind date, you can ask the introducer sideways about the attitude of the girl on the blind date. If there is an intermediary to mediate in the middle, you can avoid a lot of detours.
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