Although many girls object to the saying "men are not bad, women do not love", but I have to say that compared with honest people, those "bad men" who can speak well are indeed easier to woo girls. Which one is very How can a boy who is honest and doesn’t even answer a girl’s conversation in a chat get a girl?
1. Change your image
Many honest boys cannot pursue girls, not because they don’t know how to chat, but because they don’t pay much attention to their personal image and dress casually.
You must know that everyone loves beauty. If you like good-looking girls, of course girls will also want a good boyfriend. You don't have to be handsome, but you must keep yourself clean and tidy, so that you will be basically attractive to girls.
2. Build self-confidence
There are also some honest boys who are afraid of being rejected when chasing girls, so they are often very passive and dare not take the initiative to chat or ask her out.
However, not everyone is born to be a master of love, and the masters you see may have experienced countless failures. So get rid of your shame and boldly approach the girl you like.
3. Improve emotional intelligence
Honest people have many advantages, such as kindness and intelligence. When many girls think of an honest person, they think this person is a good person and would like to be a friend rather than a lover. On the one hand, it's because of his personality that he's too happy-go-lucky; on the other hand, he really doesn't understand girls' thoughts, which makes him unable to feel in love.
In fact, honest boys are still very attractive to girls because they feel safe. But being too honest will make girls feel boring, so it is also important to learn to make girls happy.
4. Create romance
Why are honest people always disliked by girls? One of the reasons is because honest people are too boring. As emotional creatures, girls are very particular about feelings. Of course, it doesn’t mean that you have to give gifts to girls to be fun. Even taking her to the park or watching movies is very interesting. The biggest shortcoming of an honest person is that he doesn't even dare to ask for a date, and he doesn't know how to talk about love.
5. Use ambiguity to upgrade the relationship
When pursuing girls, many honest and introverted boys do not I know how to chat, so I rarely take the initiative to chat with the other person. Even if the relationship has progressed to a certain extent, I don't dare to upgrade the relationship with the girl for fear of rejection by the girl, so I would rather stay a good friend than open that conversation.
But girls are naturally more reserved and rarely take the initiative, so if you want to catch her, you must learn to take the initiative.Attacking, such as using ambiguity to achieve the effect of upgrading the relationship, as long as she does not resist you, it is a sign that she is interested in you, so if you want to usher in a new relationship, then go and flirt with her quickly.
A girl is an emotional animal. It is better to understand her than to be nice to her. Of course, if you are willing to improve your social skills for her and change your honest character for her, it will naturally become easier to chase her.
