As men, we often encounter situations where girls have more subtext when they speak. Sometimes these subtexts cause unnecessary confusion for us because we don’t understand exactly what they are trying to say. This article will explore what subtexts girls often say and what these subtexts mean.
"I don't mind"
This sentence sounds good because she means: "I won't be angry about this". However, there is another meaning behind this sentence, that is, she really cares, but doesn't want to tell you directly. For example, when you say you're going out with friends but she happens to be planning on staying home with you, she might say, "I don't mind." At this time, you should ask her if she wants to go out together to prevent her from feeling uncomfortable.
"It's up to you"
This sentence sounds like she means she is easy to talk to, but in fact It’s also a subtext. What she meant was: "I don't know what you want, so you decide." This statement may sound unfriendly, so you should ask again to confirm what she meant.
"I'm busy"
When a girl says: "I'm busy," it may mean that she doesn't want to be with you, or that she's already dating someone else. She does tend to be busy most of the time, but if you want to spend quality time with her, you need to find a schedule that works.
"I can solve it myself"
When a girl says: "I can solve it myself", it may mean that she can really do it by herself, or that she Don't want to trouble you. If you really want to help her, you need to show your sincerity by asking again if she needs your help.
"It's okay"
This may be one of the most common subtexts. When a girl says: "It's okay", she may mean: "Things are indeed a little wrong." At this point you should ask her if she needs help or if she wants to share something.
Summary
No matter what girls say, we need to listen carefully and carefully observe their expressions and tone. When we ask what they mean, such as: "Don't you want to go with me?" or: "Can you tell me what you really think?" This can ensure that we correctly understand what the girl wants to express.
