Although many girls now approach themselves like tomboys, Cancer girls are one of the few girls who retain the gentle and virtuous side of traditional girls, and many boys actually like this type of Cancer girl. But often after a boy finds out that he has taken the initiative, a Cancer girl will act hot and cold, making it difficult for people to guess her thoughts. So what is the reason why Cancer girls are hot and cold? How to deal with it?
1. Cancer girls are testing you
In fact, Cancer girls are particularly good at "testing", especially in the relationship between men and women! But since a Cancer girl will be enthusiastic about you and take the initiative to talk to you, it means that she has a good impression of you, and your instant reply is also a great support to her. And as a Cancer girl, it's actually quite difficult for her to be passionate about you. The deliberate indifference of Cancer girls is just a test for you.
2. Cancer girls like you
A Cancer girl may be hot and cold because she likes you a little bit. She is married, but she is not sure whether you like her or not, and she is not sure whether you are the one who can keep going with her. At this time, she will be very confused and become hot and cold. In this case, you can continue to warm her. See Look at her subsequent reaction. If you continue to warm her for a month and she is still lukewarm, it may be that she has someone else she likes and is unwilling to hurt you. Remember, this is not to hang you, it is really because you don’t want to hurt the other party, and you want to slowly cool down so that the other party will no longer look for you.
3. Cancer girls are tired
In fact, there are reasons why Cancer girls are hot and cold, such as When she was enthusiastic, did you respond? When she clings to you, do you push her away? When she wanted to talk to you, did you say no? When she needed you, didn't you just not care at all and think it wasn't a big problem? Think about it, what has she complained about to you before? You can find the reason why she is cold.
As for when a Cancer girl starts to treat you coldly, you may have to put some thought into it. Because when Cancer women are attached to you and love you, they trust you very much and feel that you are the whole world. They will be sensible and accommodate you, but you may never feel it. That's when they are at their softest. From being clingy to you at the beginning to becoming indifferent now, it may be because Cancer girls are tired. Think carefully about what your attitude is every time you are needed. When it comes to relationships between two people, you can't always ask the other person to accommodate you. You never give the other person the response they need.
4. Cancer girls feel that they are not reserved
In fact, Cancer girls can take the initiative to come to you and still have nothing to say. Not talking about it shows that she trusts you a lot, but she suddenly becomes cold to you. I think she might be too enthusiastic about you, and maybe she likes you a little bit, but thisThis feeling is not deep yet, so I am restraining my enthusiasm for you, thinking that I am too unreserved like this. Moreover, no matter who a Cancer girl gets along with, after a while she will examine and reflect on her way of getting along with others.
In fact, it is also a good sign for a Cancer girl to be hot and cold. After all, she was once passionate about you, It means she is not repelled by you. Although she seems cold-mouthed, as long as you show enough sincerity, the Cancer girl is still willing to give you another chance.
<img src="/uploadfile/2024/1027/20241027083203732.png" alt="A Gemini girl"s hot and cold tempers mean that she is very entangled in love." />